As an aspiring musician, you may often ask yourself the question, "how do I know if my music is good?" Many people will give you typical answers, such as letting your friends and family listen to your music and seeing their reactions or finding someone who can provide you with brutally honest feedback. However, I'm here to tell you that you should stop seeking validation from others and start trusting your own instincts.
If you feel passionate about your music, enjoy creating it, and love the final product, then there are other people out there who will resonate with it as well. We tend to believe that we're uniquely different, but there are others out there who share the same interests and preferences as us. Just like how there are people who look like us, there are those who have the same taste in music and appreciate what we create.
Instead of focusing on what others think of your music, put your energy into making music that you love. You're investing your time and effort into creating something that you enjoy, so don't waste that by seeking validation from others. When you put your music out there, you will attract people who appreciate what you're doing. It doesn't matter if your style is different or not currently popular. There will always be people who prefer unique, experimental music over the mainstream.
Consistency is key to building your fan base. Even if only a few people listen to your music at first, keep putting it out there and promoting it. Over time, you will attract more listeners and build a following. The more unique and different your music, the stronger your fan base will be. When you're true to yourself and not just chasing a popular trend, people will appreciate that authenticity.
Don't worry about whether everyone will like your music or not. The most important thing is that you enjoy creating it, and there will always be people out there who will appreciate it as well. Learn about marketing and how to promote yourself, and keep putting your music out there. Success is subjective, so focus on what it means to you and keep making music that you love.